Tuesday, February 24, 2009

“Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Thursday, February 19, 2009


“The way you’re singing in your sleep
The way you look before you leap
The strange illusions that you keep
You don’t know, but I’m noticing.”
-Nick and Norah’s Infinite Playlist

Friday, January 30, 2009


“I can’t promise to fix all your problems, but I can promise you won’t have to face them alone.”

Monday, January 26, 2009

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

“I imagine the feelings of two people meeting again after many years. In the past they spent some time together, and therefore they think they are linked by the same experience, the same recollections. The same recollections? That’s where the misunderstanding starts: they don’t have the same recollections; each of them retains two or three small scenes from the past, but each has his own; their recollections are not similar; they don’t intersect; and even in terms of quantity they are not comparable: one person remembers the other more than he is remembered; first because memory capacity varies among individuals, but also (this is more painful to admit) because they don’t hold the same importance for each other.”
-Ignorance, Milan Kundera

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Don't confuse Lust with Love.